I often find myself fielding a recurring question from my lovely brides: “Should I opt for a modest wedding dress and ensure my shoulders are covered during the wedding mass?”
First and foremost, let’s delve into the essence of modesty, a value close to our hearts. To shed light on this, let’s turn to the wisdom of the catechism:
“Modesty protects the mystery of persons and their love. It encourages patience and moderation in loving relationships; it requires that the conditions for the definitive giving and commitment of man and woman to one another be fulfilled. Modesty is decency. It inspires oneβs choice of clothing. It keeps silence or reserve where there is an evident risk of unhealthy curiosity. It is discreet.” [Catechism of the Catholic Church, no. 2522]
Isn’t it awe-inspiring to be part of a faith that upholds such a profound value? If we’ve decided to celebrate our union with a sacred and solemn mass in the church, then it’s only fitting that our sense of modesty guides our choices.
Now, what defines an immodest dress style, you might wonder? It’s crucial to be mindful of this aspect. After conducting some research, it’s evident that the majority of brides who marry in Catholic churches tend to steer clear of styles that may elicit comments about their attire being too revealing or provoke impure thoughts. It’s a sensible approach, isn’t it?
So, you may ask, what alternatives do you have? It might be a tad challenging to find your dream dress in a market saturated with modern styles, but let’s embrace the opportunity to be discerning and blessed brides. Just take a glance at our enchanting Catholic brides here. They’ve embraced various styles that embody both beauty and modesty.
Consider lace sleeves, delicate straps, or even going strapless with the option of adding a bolero or an extra pair of cap sleeves (which can be removed when you’re ready for that first dance!). Another elegant choice is a long veil that gracefully drapes over your shoulders during the mass celebration. It’s a romantically appealing option as well.
In essence, the options are plentiful, and they all exude an air of prettiness, elegance, and sheer gorgeousness. Let our inspiration be kindled by the grace and beauty of our pins here!
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for walking with me in this season of preparation. When I feel uncertain or overwhelmed by details like my dress or dΓ©cor, remind me that Your love is constant and unchanging.
Help me to see myself as You see me, beautifully made, worthy of love, and preparing for a sacred covenant. Give me peace in my decisions and joy in my heart as I walk toward the altar.
May every detail of this wedding, big or small, lead me closer to You. Amen.
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