So, you’re planning your Catholic wedding—how exciting! Between picking flowers, music, and a dream dress, there’s something even more meaningful you get to choose: the readings for your wedding Mass.
What options do we have?
Quite a lot, actually! You’ll find
9 choices for the First Reading (from the Old Testament), 7 for the Responsorial Psalm, 13 for the Second Reading (from the New Testament), and 10 different Gospels. You’ll pick one from each category to create your perfect set of readings.
I came across this handy guide from St. Pius X Church—it’s like a complete wedding “menu” for your Scripture selections. You can download it here: Wedding Readings PDF.
Why Are There Only Certain Readings?
Catholic weddings aren’t just beautiful celebrations; they’re liturgies of the Church. Every part of the Nuptial Mass is steeped in meaning and rooted in Scripture. That’s why the Church provides a set of readings specifically for weddings, all carefully chosen because they speak about love, marriage, and God’s covenant with His people.
Think of it like a specially curated menu for the most important spiritual meal of your life. These readings aren’t random, they’ve been prayed over, tested by tradition, and included in the Lectionary for a reason.
How Should We Choose?
Start by reading through the options together. Take your time. Which passages make your heart leap? Which ones feel like they were written just for your love story?
Here’s a simple way to decide:
- Old Testament Reading: Something that reflects God’s covenant love.
- Responsorial Psalm: A prayer that speaks to your hearts.
- New Testament Reading: Often about the love of Christ and how it shapes marriage.
- Gospel: Where Jesus speaks truth and grace into your life.
Pro tip: Highlight the verses that give you chills or make you tear up (in a good way!). Those are usually the ones God is nudging you toward.
Do We Have to Stick to These Readings?
In most cases, yes. The Church gives these options because they capture the essence of sacramental marriage. Some dioceses might allow a few additional choices, but that depends on local practice.
If you have another Scripture passage that means the world to you, talk to your priest. He’s your guide here, and sometimes, if it fits the liturgy and theology, he can offer a solution—maybe including it in your program or during the reception prayers.
But honestly? The “menu” is already rich and soul-stirring. These readings have been chosen for centuries because they speak timeless truth about love, sacrifice, and God’s plan for marriage.
Bottom Line
Don’t stress. You have a beautiful selection to choose from, and your priest will help you navigate everything. So, grab a coffee with your fiancé, open this list of readings, and let God’s Word shape the start of your lifelong journey together.
And remember—if you’re unsure, why not ask your priest for his wisdom? He’s done this many times and would love to help.
Heavenly Father,
We thank You for the gift of love and the sacred call to marriage. Bless us who are preparing for our wedding day. Fill our hearts with peace, our mind with clarity, and our souls with joy. Guide us and our fiancés as we choose their readings, that Your Word may speak life into our marriage. May our union reflect Your faithful love and become a light for others. Through Christ our Lord, Amen.
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